October 18, 2020
I’m a recovered binge eater who changed the story from something that happened to me to something that happened for me. Now, I’m a licensed therapist teaching you to do the same.
My mission? To help you ditch food stress and live your life with mental peace and freedom every single day!
Sometimes, life can be a bit of a rollercoaster, and you might find yourself stuck in situations where it feels like your boundaries are about as effective as a chocolate teapot. But fret not, my friend, because today we’re diving into the world of boundaries and how to set them in a way that people will actually listen to. No more tolerating unwanted behavior here! 🎢
Have you ever felt like a doormat, constantly taken advantage of? Or perhaps you struggle to speak up when you’re treated unfairly? These could be signs of boundary issues, and in this exploration, we’re going to unravel the red flags that indicate when it’s time to set some healthy boundaries in your life:
If you’re nodding your head to most of these, it’s time for a change. Setting boundaries doesn’t make you mean or needy; it’s about taking care of yourself.
Now that we’ve uncovered the signs of boundary issues, it’s time to roll up our sleeves and take action. Setting effective boundaries isn’t just about drawing lines in the sand; it’s about reclaiming your personal space, self-respect, and sanity. So, let’s dive into the four steps to set boundaries that actually work:
What’s bugging you, and who’s bugging you? You gotta be crystal clear about your needs, or your boundaries will be about as useful as a screen door on a submarine. If you’re fuzzy on this, your boundaries will be just as blurry.
This part might make your palms sweaty, but it’s crucial. You’ve gotta communicate your boundaries to the folks involved. Remember, it’s not about being confrontational; it’s about self-care. You’re saying, “Hey, I’m no doormat!”
If you’ve never set a boundary before, people might not take you seriously the first time. Especially if you’re dealing with a real dominator. Stay confident, don’t budge, and remind yourself why this boundary is vital.
Consequences are like the secret sauce to making boundaries work. If there’s no “if-then” in the game, folks won’t take you seriously. They’ve gotta know what’s on the line if they break that boundary.
Remember, boundaries are like a shield for your well-being. People will treat you the way you let them treat you. If that’s not sitting well with you, it’s time to put some sturdy boundaries in place. Go out there and rock those boundaries like a boss!
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Ryann is a licensed therapist and virtual wellness coach who has assisted individuals worldwide in establishing a healthier relationship with food and their bodies.
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